I recently spent a couple of afternoons just watching the children work in the classroom. I kept notes of the different activities chosen by each child, the games they played on the playground, who they played with, who they ate snack with, and so on. I took lots of photos, too, candid snaps of children building, painting, writing, looking at books, working a puzzle – no cheesy grinning at the camera shots! I’ve used these notes to write ‘an afternoon in the life of’ each child. I plan to give each parent a write up of an afternoon in the life of his or her child, together with a collage of photos, so that the parents can experience a typical afternoon at the Montessori School of Pullman, through the activities of their own children.
I saw some really impressive work – painting maps, drawing flags from countries around the world, journal writing, math counting work – but what impressed and touched me most was seeing the quiet leadership of some of our older children.
One girl, who has been at our school since before she was three, is now in kindergarten. She’s a younger sister in her family, but at our school she is like the older sister to the younger children. She offered a box of Kleenex twice to a younger child.
“Take a Kleenex and wipe your nose. Now put the Kleenex in the trash and wash your hands.”
She also helped a younger child engage in a new building activity.
This kindergarten child helps the class run smoothly by taking care of the younger children in a quiet, thoughtful way. She has grown enormously in confidence, competence, empathy and leadership since she was one of the younger children.
Another child, also in kindergarten, and also a younger child at home, helped several times during the afternoon. He helped some of the younger children find the sandpaper letters they were looking for. He helped one of his peers put away an enormous piece of writing with the cursive moveable alphabet. He helped without any fuss or showing off or need for reward. He helped simply because he could.
A parent pointed out to me some time ago that in a Montessori environment, younger siblings in a family, and children without siblings at home, get the opportunity to be the big brothers and sisters to children younger than themselves in the classroom. That’s another benefit of the three year age span of the children.
An Afternoon in the Life of a Montessori Child October 26, 2012
Many hands make light work! October 21, 2012
I love working on fundraisers for our school. This year we will have three – a Rummage Sale, a Scholastic Book Fair and a Benefit Dinner. Each fundraiser offers many opportunities for parents and staff to work together for a common cause.
This past weekend, we had our annual rummage sale in the gym. Parents collected and donated rummage, put up flyers, posted info about the sale on electronic bulletin boards and their facebook pages, spent hours setting up tables, and sorting, folding and displaying clothing and other donated items, and more hours the next day working at the checkout, taking money, carrying large items out to cars, and finally clearing up the gym after the sale by bagging and boxing leftover items and loading them on to the Salvation Army truck. Volunteers then folded and put away tables, and swept the gym. Other volunteers baked cookies, muffins, biscotti and bread for our bake sale, or made home-made jam, pickles and chutney to sell. Parents also shopped at the sale, too.
While the purpose of a fundraiser is to raise funds (duh!), I also truly believe that putting sweat equity into the school helps build community.
My husband asked, “How much will you get from selling all of that zucchini bread you baked?”
“Maybe thirty dollars,” I answered.
“Wouldn’t it be easier to just donate thirty dollars?”
“Yes, but it wouldn’t be the same as giving of my time and energy,” I answered.
I hope the other volunteers feel a similar pride in raising two thousand dollars from our combined efforts.
I also noticed new friendships being forged as parents worked together.
This year, as an added bonus, forty-two unexpected students from WSU turned up to help with the sale. That was a lot of young energy to help us out. One of our parents who is a professor at WSU said that she felt so proud of the students . . . that they would stay late on a Friday evening, and show up early on a Saturday morning, to help out the community. Many thanks, WSU students, for being awesome community volunteers!
Now I can’t wait to get working on the Book Fair!